{"id":23233,"date":"2014-06-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-06-16T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/15.134.89.131\/archive\/2014\/06\/17\/%e5%ab%81%e7%bb%99%e8%87%aa%e5%b7%b1-marry-yourself\/"},"modified":"2014-06-17T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2014-06-16T16:00:00","slug":"%e5%ab%81%e7%bb%99%e8%87%aa%e5%b7%b1-marry-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/15.134.89.131\/archive\/?p=23233","title":{"rendered":"\u5ac1\u7ed9\u81ea\u5df1 Marry Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"color: #666; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 15px;\">\ud83d\udc49 <strong>\u672c\u6587\u4f5c\u8005\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr style=\"border: 0; border-top: 1px dashed #ddd; margin-bottom: 20px;\" \/>\n<p>  You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u6bd4\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u7684\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u66f4\u503c\u5f97\u4f60\u7684\u5173\u7231\u548c\u559c\u6b22\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000Prepare \u201csoul vows.\u201d These vows were deepest commitment to love,<br \/>\ncherish, and deeply care for all parts of yourself in sickness and in<br \/>\nhealth, until your time on the planet comes to an end.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u51c6\u5907\u597d\u201c\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00\u201d\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8a93\u8a00\u662f\u4f60\u5185\u5fc3\u5bf9\u7231\u60c5\u3001\u73cd\u7231\u3001\u548c\u6df1\u85cf\u5728\u4f60\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u6240\u6709\u4e00\u5207\u7684\u6700\u8bda\u631a\u7684\u627f\u8bfa\uff0c\u65e0\u8bba\u751f\u547d\u5065\u5eb7\u4e0e\u5426\uff0c\u4f1a\u8ddf\u968f\u4f60\u76f4\u5230\u4f60\u5728\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4e16\u754c\u6700\u540e\u4e00\u5929\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000Seeking love outside yourself will never bring fulfillment unless you possess radical, unshakable love for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u5728\u5916\u9762\u5bfb\u627e\u771f\u7231\u4e0d\u80fd\u8ba9\u4f60\u6709\u5b8c\u5168\u7684\u6ee1\u8db3\u611f\uff0c\u9664\u975e\u4f60\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u5f7b\u5e95\u7684\u4e0d\u53ef\u52a8\u6447\u7684\u7231\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000With that knowing, these are some of Soul Vows:<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u6709\u4e86\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5171\u8bc6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u53ef\u4ee5\u505a\u51fa\u4ee5\u4e0b\u7684\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00\uff1a<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000I vow to comfort myself during times of hopelessness, despair, depression, disillusionment, or any difficulty that arises.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u6211\u53d1\u8a93\uff0c\u5728\u7edd\u671b\u3001\u6cae\u4e27\u3001\u5e7b\u706d\u6216\u4efb\u4f55\u56f0\u96be\u51fa\u73b0\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u4f1a\u5b89\u6170\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000I vow to be my Beloved always and in all 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not.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u6211\u53d1\u8a93\uff0c\u4ee5\u6211\u7684\u7cbe\u795e\u9053\u8def\u4e3a\u8363\uff0c\u5e76\u521b\u9020\u51fa\u8ba9\u4eba\u60ca\u8bb6\u7684\u4eba\u751f\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u6211\u662f\u5426\u5408\u6cd5\u7ed3\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000I vow to honor my calling and live my life as a work of art.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u6211\u53d1\u8a93\uff0c\u4ee5\u542c\u5230\u7684\u53f7\u53ec\u4e3a\u8363\uff0c\u8ba9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u6d3b\u5f97\u50cf\u827a\u672f\u54c1\u4e00\u6837\u7cbe\u5f69\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000Some vows were tender and some fierce\u2014some private, and some to be shared with the world.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u8a93\u8a00\u6709\u4e9b\u662f\u6e29\u548c\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u662f\u6fc0\u70c8\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u79c1\u4eba\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e0e\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u5206\u4eab\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000All vows were an expression of my soul\u2019s calling and a deep desire to<br \/>\nlove myself and care for myself at the deepest possible level in all<br \/>\nareas of my life.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u6240\u6709\u7684\u8a93\u8a00\u90fd\u4f53\u73b0\u6211\u7075\u9b42\u7684\u53ec\u5524\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u8981\u7231\u62a4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5f3a\u70c8\u6e34\u671b\uff0c\u4ee5\u5c3d\u53ef\u80fd\u6df1\u7684\u7a0b\u5ea6\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u5404\u65b9\u9762\u5173\u7231\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000These vows were the gateway into a life that was deeper, richer, and more connected to my soul\u2019s guidance.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8a93\u8a00\u90fd\u662f\u8fdb\u5165\u751f\u547d\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u9014\u5f84\uff0c\u5b83\u4eec\u66f4\u6df1\u5165\u66f4\u4e30\u5bcc\uff0c\u4e0e\u7075\u9b42\u6709\u66f4\u5bc6\u5207\u8054\u7cfb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Here are 4 ways to say \u201cI do\u201d to 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Write your soul vows.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30001. \u5199\u4e0b\u4f60\u7684\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000You have a deeply cherished vision for your life, and your soul vows<br \/>\nare a way to get it out of your soul and on paper. You could create a<br \/>\nvideo, write a poem, or use fancy writing. Throw yourself a party.<br \/>\nRegister for gifts! Why not?<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u4f60\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u6709\u6700\u73cd\u89c6\u7684\u89c6\u89d2\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4f60\u7684\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00\u662f\u4f60\u7528\u6587\u5b57\u628a\u5fc3\u91cc\u7684\u8bdd\u8bb0\u8f7d\u51fa\u6765\u7684\u3002\u4f60\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u505a\u4e00\u4e2a\u89c6\u9891\uff0c\u5199\u4e00\u9996\u8bd7\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u5199\u7bc7\u5c0f\u8bf4\u3002\u7136\u540e\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u4e3e\u884c\u4e00\u4e2a\u5bb4\u4f1a\uff0c\u767b\u8bb0\u6536\u5230\u7684\u793c\u7269\uff0c\u6709\u4f55\u4e0d\u53ef\uff1f\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30002. Create a vision board.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30002. \u521b\u9020\u4e00\u4e2a\u613f\u666f\u7248<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000The soul speaks in images. Your soul vows may be magnificently revealed<br \/>\n in a vision for your life. Carve out some time to craft a vision board<br \/>\nfrom images that resonate with you. Allow yourself to be intuitively<br \/>\ndrawn to these images and don\u2019t rely on your rational mind.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u7075\u9b42\u4f1a\u4ee5\u5f62\u8c61\u8bf4\u8bdd\u3002\u4f60\u7684\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00\u5c06\u4ee5\u6700\u5927\u7a0b\u5ea6\u5c55\u73b0\u4f60\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u89c6\u89d2\u3002\u7559\u51fa\u4e00\u4e9b\u65f6\u95f4\uff0c\u5236\u9020\u4e00\u4e2a\u548c\u4f60\u5f62\u8c61\u6709\u5171\u9e23\u7684\u613f\u666f\u7248\u3002\u5141\u8bb8\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u76f4\u89c2\u5730\u7ed8\u5236\u51fa\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5f62\u8c61\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u4f9d\u8d56\u4f60\u7684\u7406\u667a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30003. Sacred jewelry.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30003. \u795e\u5723\u7684\u73e0\u5b9d<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000Procure a piece of jewelry that has heart and meaning for you, such as a<br \/>\n silver heart necklace inscribed: \u201cYou make the world a better place.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000A lady actually created a sacred jewelry business after marrying<br \/>\nherself. She\u2019s finally found her path after years of meandering.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u53d6\u4e00\u4ef6\u5bf9\u4f60\u6765\u8bf4\u662f\u6709\u5fc3\u610f\u53ca\u610f\u4e49\u7684\u73e0\u5b9d\u3002\u5982\u4e00\u4ef6\u94f6\u9879\u94fe\uff0c\u4e0a\u9762\u96d5\u523b\u7740\u201c\u4f60\u8ba9\u4e16\u754c\u66f4\u7f8e\u597d\u201d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u66fe\u6709\u4e00\u4f4d\u5973\u58eb\u5728\u201c\u5ac1\u7ed9\u201d\u81ea\u5df1\u540e\uff0c\u9001\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u4e00\u4e2a\u795e\u5723\u7684\u73e0\u5b9d\u3002\u7136\u540e\u5728\u7ecf\u5386\u591a\u5e74\u7684\u66f2\u6298\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u5979\u7ec8\u4e8e\u627e\u5230\u4e86\u5c5e\u4e8e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9053\u8def\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30004. Be witnessed in your sacred vows.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u30004. \u89c1\u8bc1\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u795e\u5723\u8a93\u8a00<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000While making a soul vows, perhaps a ceremony with a few close friends?<br \/>\nFind a way to have others acknowledge this transformation.<\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000\u5728\u505a\u7075\u9b42\u8a93\u8a00\u65f6\uff0c\u4e0d\u59a8\u4e3e\u884c\u4e00\u4e2a\u5c0f\u578b\u5178\u793c\uff0c\u8ba9\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e5f\u627f\u8ba4\u4f60\u7684\u8fd9\u79cd\u8f6c\u53d8\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u3000<br \/>\n\u3000And while the marrying myself was a lovely starting place, it was<br \/>\nreally just the beginning. 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